How to Be More Mindful with 1% Improvements

  • By: Ryan Kane
  • Updated: March 8, 2022
  • Time to read: 5 min.

Like going to the gym, mindfulness is a game of slow-and-steady where the payoff often doesn’t show up until much later.

But training consistently over time transforms you over years.

Sometimes it can feel like you’re doing everything you can to live more mindfully, but you’re not noticing any changes within yourself.

I know that happens to me. I’ll come across a new concept I want to internalize, and in the moment, it’ll seem like just what I needed. Gratitude, for example, or self-compassion.

But weeks go by, or months, it feels like I’m behaving the same way. Still forgetting to be grateful for what I have. Still forgetting to treat myself with care, the same way I’d treat a dear friend.

Then all of a sudden, maybe a year or two later, I’ll realize that something DID click, after all.

But I only see this in retrospect.

Dealing with slow progress on mindfulness

When things take a long time, it can be demotivating.

You can even start to question if your efforts are worth it, because the outcome feels the same as if you’d done nothing.

If you’re still feeling anxiety and stress at the same levels you felt before, why keep meditating?

If you’re still living most of your life in the past or the future, why bother with keeping up your mindfulness practice?

This is a challenge we all face. And unfortunately, there are no shortcuts. Rewiring your brain for peace, gratitude, self-compassion, and present-moment living is the work of a lifetime.

But changing how you think about this process can help.

I want to bring up two concepts from the habits writer James Clear:

  1. The compound power of continuous improvement
  2. The concept of habit stacking

How to be more mindful—1% at a time

The first concept is the idea that improving 1% every day, while imperceptible in the moment (and perhaps a bit boring), has enormous impact over time.

Here’s a graph from James Clear’s website to illustrate:

Improving 1% every day leads to a 37x improvement in a single year.

This is the power of compound improvement.

All of a sudden, those tiny changes that have been adding up over time turn into a wave of powerful transformation.

Now, this doesn’t mean that a year is all it takes for your mindfulness and meditation practice to transform your life.

Rather, my point is that the changes to the patterns in your mind are often imperceptible on the scale of a day, a week, a month, or even a year.

Forgive me as I quote Bill Gates, the founder of Microsoft, on a mindfulness website, but this phrase has become known as Gates’ Law:

“Most people overestimate what they can achieve in a year and underestimate what they can achieve in ten years.”

Bill Gates

We like to think that a 30-day meditation challenge, or a new year’s resolution, will be what we need to finally break through the barriers of change that have been holding us back. And those can help, for sure.

But with mindfulness, we need to zoom out and look at bigger time frames:

Hundreds of hours of meditation.

A decade of mindfulness practice.

All of a sudden, you’ll realize years later—your mind has changed. You operate differently in the world now.

It was worth it.

“Habit stacking” for a more mindful life

Woman meditating on a mountaintop

There aren’t many “hacks” in the world of mindfulness.

Shortcuts aren’t really a thing. Practice is the only way to train your mind to operate differently over time.

But your ability and willingness to practice is closely tied to habits.

That’s why I think habit stacking is one of the more powerful ways to accelerate your mindfulness practice, especially if you feel like you’re not able to make time for mindfulness in your day-to-day life.

Habit stacking is another concept from James Clear, who describes the full premise here.

Essentially, the idea is that building habits is hard and takes work, but that you can make the process easier by linking new habits to ones that are already second nature to you.

For example, instead of saying “I’ll meditate every day,” you might say: “I’ll meditate for 15 minutes every day right after I brush my teeth.”

If brushing your teeth is already an established habit for you, you’ll find you’re able to hook your meditation habit onto your teeth-brushing habit.

In my view, this is even more powerful with mindfulness in your daily life.

Because the practice of meditation is about bringing your full attention to the present moment nonjudgmentally, that means you can get an incredible amount of mindfulness practice during the course of your day.

You can continue to train your muscle of present-moment attention long after you’ve left the meditation cushion.

Examples of mindful habits

Habit stacking can help you build small moments of mindfulness into your day.

For example:

  1. Wash your hands -> Mindful moment: When you wash your hands after going to the bathroom, you usually look at yourself in the mirror. Use that action to remind yourself to be present, feeling the temperature of the water, and moving intentionally as you put soap on your hands, run them under the water and dry them.
  2. Sit down in the car -> Take a breath and check in with yourself: When you sit down in the car and strap your seatbelt on, use that action to remind yourself to take a breath and focus on the present moment, not just the destination. How are you feeling right now? How can you conduct this trip in a way that contributes to a calmer day, so you show up to your destination refreshed?
  3. Clean up around the house -> Focus on nonjudgment: When you clean up around the house, you might be focused on wishing there wasn’t a mess to clean up. The fact that the action of cleaning up triggers this feeling means you can let yourself feel that judgment you normally feel, and then use it as a reminder to practice nonjudgment while cleaning. The resistance you feel can be an invitation to practice mindfulness.

Becoming more mindful one day at a time

Growing your mindfulness practice isn’t easy, and results aren’t quick.

You’re working to rewire your brain and your habits bit by bit. Doing this takes time.

That’s why zooming out and taking the long view can help so much. Understand that each little moment contributes to the bigger picture. Each time you sit for meditation, each time you steer judgment into nonjudgment, each time you pull yourself from the future back to the present, you’re adding practice that will compound its way into real changes in your brain over time.

Remember that in one year, you’ll likely be a little further along than you are now.

But in ten years, you might find that you’re unrecognizable to yourself. You might find that you’re a happier, more joyful, more grateful, calmer, less stressed, less anxious version of you.

That’s the vision to keep in mind.

And you can get there, 1% at a time.

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